Coming up with first date ideas can be exciting but also nerve-racking! Don’t worry, I have put together a list of best first date ideas that will keep your conversation flowing and the excitement brewing!
It’s no secret that your first date creates millions of butterflies in your stomach!!
You’re constantly thinking, “Is there anything in my teeth” “is he having fun” ” am I funny enough” “do you think he will want to go on a second date?” I found that going to dinner on the first date leads me to overthink and judge every little thing I do “am I using the right fork?”
so I have created the best list of first date ideas to keep you out of your head and out of a traditional dinner and a movie as you never know this could be your future husband or wife, how exciting!!
This post is all about the most perfect first date ideas that you both will love
1. Kayaking
Kayaking is so much fun and a great date idea as you have to work together to keep it moving in the right direction. Either you get a 2 steater kayak or you get an individual kayak each you are bound to have loads of fun! Might I add packing so snacks or a picnic so you can stop off somewhere and relax!
2. Indoor Skydiving
This is such an exhilarating date. Make sure your date doesn’t suffer from motion sickness or else this could end up a bit sour lol. After experiencing this you are bound to have loads to talk about! Often they have a snack bar or little cafe in these places so you won’t have to go too far for a snack after your adventures date!
3. Dance Class
Now hear me out, I truly believe that everyone can dance you just might need a few lessons! One of the most exciting nights I had was taking salsa lessons at a bar/restaurant in SF. The first hour was a basic lesson on the salsa basics and then the bar was opened up into a social night where a bunch of people came to just salsa dance the night away! There is every level there, extreme beginner to professional just let your hair down and have some fun!
4. Snorkeling
Now, this will definitely depend on where in the world you live but this is such a fun option! You can bring your snacks on the boat and then have a fun lunch after you finish exploring the depths of the ocean! *make sure your date can swim*
5. Adventure Park
There are some really fun options for this!
- Trampoline park
- Water park
- Treetop obstacle course
- Ziplining
Nothing beats an adrenaline-filled date where you can conquer the course or task together!
6. Cooking Class
Cooking up some love in the kitchen is bound to be fun! I personally went to a sushi-making class at Sur La Table and it was so much fun.
7. Mixology Class
Much like the cooking class this is a class all about mixing and shaking up new and fun cocktails!
8. Adoption Day
Seeing how your date interacts with animals can tell you A LOT about a person. Sign up for an adoption day where the two are you will help get some cute furry friends into their forever home!
9. Comedy Night
Loads of places have comedy nights where it’s either open mics or professionals up on stage! We all want to be with someone with a great sense of humor so seeing what makes your date laugh is a step in the right direction!
10. Figure Drawing Class
Okay so hear me out… taking your date to stare at a naked person for an hour while they try to draw their body in detail might sound strange but it’s actually amazing! You will be sure to share a few giggles and you never know you guys could be the next up and coming artists!
11. Botanical Gardens
On a nice day strolling through your local botanical garden is such a cute fun first date idea! Often times there are little ice cream or shaved ice vendors so be sure to stop off for a little treat while you stroll through the garden.
12. Wood Carving Class
This is something that my boyfriend and I did recently and it was so much fun! We were able to carve our own spatulas and we still use them every day! This is such a fun and creative date that will have your date feeling like a real mountain man!
13. Karaoke
Now karaoke is such a fun idea as you can rent a room in hour long slots and sing to each other. They often have bars and little bite to eat so eat, drink and sing your heart out! Try and sing each others favorite songs to each other! You never know, this may lead to really fun group dates in the future!
14. DJ Mixing Sessions
If you love music as much as I do this will be a great first date idea for you! Much like karaoke you rent a room filled with DJ equipment and off you go to make the next hit of the summer! Its so much fun to mix different beats together to create a song together!
15. Pottery Class
If you arent thinking about the movie Ghost while reading about a pottery class I need you to watch it tonight, It is a classic! Pottery classes are so fun and you never know you could make an amazing bowl that will be brought out every holiday in the future (if you catch my drift)
16. Open Mic Night
There are loads of coffee shops and bars that offer open mic nights. They could be anything from; comedy nights, poetry slams, to musical performances. It would be really fun to get a drink and watch and discuss the talent on stage! (keep it positive they are brave for getting up there)
17. Night at a Museum
Check out your local museums to see if they offer after hour 18 and up night at the museum experiences. They are so fun, they have DJs, bars, food and all the exhibits are open to explore. Its really fun casual vibe and you are sure to really enjoy your night!
18. Day at a Farm
Like I said earlier seeing how your date interacts with animals is so important. Loads of farms offer day trips where you can feed the baby animals and even milk the cows and goats. This is such a fun first date ideas to get a little dirty and in touch with nature!
19. Fruit and or Flower Picking
Depending on the season loads of farms offer seasonal fruit or flower picking! This would be such a cute date idea with loads of fun photo opportunities!
20. Boardwalk, Fair, or Amusement Park
Enjoying the rides, food, and atmosphere would be perfect in the day time or at night! Helpfully he will win you a giant teddy bear or goldfish lol
21. Food Truck Festival
The yummiest of all first date ideas, This is bound to have your heart and tummy full! When I lived in San Francisco they would have designated nights around the city for food trucks to meet up, there would be cute strings of lights, games, and live music! Absolutely such a fun night!
22. Ikea
Now hear me out on this one…Ikea is so much fun and what better way to see what taste your date has. Because if you are anything like me you are probably already planning on decorating your first house together the moment you meet… (we all do that right?)!!
23. Top Golf or Mini Golf
Get ready to show your competitive streak! This is so much fun and even better at night as some places allow you to eat and drink while you play!
24. Arcade
The older the better! I always take my boyfriend to a pinball arcade and we end up spending hours there competing on all the old games! You will have so much fun! Try and find a place that just has an entrance fee meaning all the games will be free so no need for coins! Arcades always have food and drinks so this is a great casual date to get to know each other during some friendly competition!
25. Drive-in Movie
If you are anything like me you LOVE the movie Greece. Live all your Greece dive-in movie dreams by taking your date to an old fashion drive-in movie! This is much better than a traditional movie as you guys can still talk and get to know each other during the movie without having someone in the audience shhh you!
26. Archery
Archery is so fun and completely underrated! Try your luck at hitting a bullseye while gaining a new skill and getting to know your date!
27. Improve Class
What better way to get out of your comfort zone than to be thrown on stage with a bunch of strangers and learn how to be the next star of Saturday Night Live! This is such a great way to see how good of a sport your date is and if he has a sense of humor!
28. BBQ in the Park
Wanting a more casual first date well this is it! Hit the grocery store together to get your favorite bbq items and then head into the park to grill up some fun!
29. Ice Skating or Roller Blading
After asking a few guys to come up with their best first date ideas, the majority said ice skating or rollerblading (depending on the season)! They said it’s a good way to be close to each other as you will most likely be holding hands trying not to fall! It’s also bound to be a good laugh as you will more than likely end up on the floor together at some point!